Frequently asked questions
How do I know when I can actually retire as a high earner?
The honest answer is that it's less about hitting a headline number and more about whether an integrated plan, cash flow, taxes, spending, and equity comp, says work is optional. At Tailored Wealth, we find many executives 5 to 10 years out can step back sooner than they assume once the model accounts for a declining spending curve and a multi-year tax strategy. Our control-first playbook for reducing financial stress walks through how we bring that clarity.
What's the difference between "can I retire" and "when is work optional"?
"Can I retire" asks whether you can stop working entirely. "When is work optional" asks when work becomes a genuine choice, so you can keep working on your terms, at the role, intensity, and purpose you want. The second framing, which Tailored Wealth calls Hybrid Retirement, usually arrives years before a full stop. We cover it in depth in why hybrid living beats full retirement.
Does retirement spending really drop as you age?
Yes. Average annual household spending runs about $85,000 in the 55–64 band, drops to roughly $65,000 from 65–74, and to about $56,000 at 75+, a decline driven by travel, dining, and other active-life categories. Healthcare is the exception and rises with age. That non-flat curve is why front-loading spending into your healthiest years can be both possible and smart.
How much will required minimum distributions cost me?
On a $3 million pre-tax balance, RMDs are roughly $113,000 at age 73, about $149,000 at 80, and around $188,000 at 85, all taxable and stacked on top of Social Security. The window between leaving corporate and age 73 is where Roth conversions and income sequencing can reduce that future tax drag. See our take on the best retirement withdrawal strategy.
Isn't it risky to leave before I've saved "enough"?
Once a real plan says the number is there, the bigger risk often flips: it becomes the risk of spending your healthiest, most flexible years proving something the numbers already prove. Pre-funding your near-term spending and building a tax road map is how you leave earlier without exposing yourself to a bad first market year. If you're weighing whether you've oversaved, this piece on oversaving is a useful starting point.